5. Be confident.The sexiest thing is confidence. You are my wife. I will love you and I find you sexy no matter what, so be confident in yourself. Nothing turns me on more.
I want her to be more adventurous in the bedroom, to leave her inhibitions at the door. (These truth or dare sticks should help with being adventurous)
Be uninhibited. Don’t be embarrassed. Explore more. Relax!
Just be confident, and make an effort to be enticing.
Her confidence and desire for me is a huge turn on!
To me, the set up is the most important. Flirting on the phone, high heels, and the attitude is what makes it good. Anticipation is everything! I love seeing her confidence and desire for me.
4. It’s so much better when you enjoy it.Sex is better for me when I know she is enjoying it. It makes it so much better when both of us can have some fun!Sex is way more fun when we both enjoy it. I do not want to just be serviced because she thinks it’s a duty.
Be open to try new things. I like it when she can explain what she likes, and what feels good for her.
I want her to be just as into sex as I am. If it is all about “meeting my needs” then what’s the point?
It’s okay to relinquish control and just enjoy being pleasured.
Let yourself enjoy it.
I’d love it if she could be a little more sexually adventurous, and show how much she is enjoying it.
3. Stop obsessing about the way you look.
I wish my wife knew that her weight, her outfit, her hair, her nails are so irrelevant to me when we are being intimate. I am so in love with her. All I want is for her to want to be there with me.
I wish my wife KNEW that she is so much sexier and beautiful to me than she gives herself credit for. Even though I tell her, she still criticizes herself.
God didn’t put conditions on [the beauty of your body] like “at time of birth” or “before you had *****” — I see you as beautiful and sexy, so just stop trying to convince me otherwise. I don’t care about a bit of flabby-ness or some stretch marks; heck I wouldn’t even notice half of what you see if you didn’t insist on pointing it out to me.
I don’t care that she has gained some weight over the years. I still find her sexy and beautiful and love to be with her.
I can tell by her comments that she is concerned with how the rest of the world views her appearance. Maybe not a lot, but some. She is soooooo beautiful and attractive to me, though. Her sexiness is much more than her “curves and all her edges, all her perfect imperfections.” I love ALL of her. I wish my words alone were enough to convince her of her beauty and attractiveness.
I wish that she was more comfortable in her skin and unafraid to be sexier with me. I appreciate that she doesn’t dress in overtly sexual clothing when we go out and that she respects herself, but I just wish she would be unafraid to show a little skin (not just lingerie, but outerwear as well) when it is just the two of us.

2. It’s so much more than just physical.I wish she knew that sex improves intimacy and my connection to her. It helps me with having more positive thoughts about her each day.
Sex isn’t just sex to fill a biological need. I wish my wife knew how much I feel so much closer to her when we have sex. Sex provides a pillar of stability in our marriage that helps me feel like we are still in love. Sex is a major part of how I express my love for her.
Sex is my way to connect. She likes to talk. I like to touch.
 

1. Be spontaneous and initiate.I wish she would be more spontaneous, rather than just “scheduling it in.”
Keep it spontaneous and simple!
The sex in our relationship is good, but it’s somewhat monotonous. Bring in some changes. Have fun with it. Don’t just do the deed, Play! Surprise your babe with these spicy dice!
When my wife comes on to me, it makes me feel as though she is happy and fully in love with what she has.
I wish my wife would initiate sex more. It makes me feel like she really wants to be with me.
It is easier for me to make it more enjoyable for her if I can tell she’s excited or hopeful about having a good time.
Make an effort to show an interest and want sex once in a while. It makes a world of difference.
Don’t be afraid to initiate sex. I love to feel wanted and desired.
I wish my wife knew that I want her to be involved in developing our intimacy, and not just wait for me to start something or suggest something new.